06/03/2024

Celebrations have been held to thank Yorke Peninsula foster carers Margie and Gary, who have cared for about 300 children in South Australia and the Northern Territory. The couple are retiring from their role as carers.

Foster carers Margie and Gary, supported by Uniting Country SA, have celebrated their retirement after caring for about 300 children. Picture: Uniting Country SA

Margie and her husband Gary have been carers for more than 30 years, having looked after 107 children in South Australia, and about another 200 when they lived in the Northern Territory.

The Yorke Peninsula couple adopted two children after they were unable to conceive, and have since cared for children in the SA and the NT, mostly on short-term and respite foster care arrangements.

“I can remember these two girls who came into our care – they were very busy and just ran around the house like little rabbits,” Margie says.

“They took off through the house investigating, as kids do, and one of the girls said, ‘Come here’, and we went to see what was going on.

“The youngest one had the bed sheets all pulled back and said, ‘Smell these sheets…that smells so good’.

“Most kids would be looking for the toys but not these girls – they were lying on the bed sniffing sheets.”

Margie, 67 and Gary, 71, have been supported by Uniting Country SA, which last week hosted a celebration for the pair as they retire from their role as foster carers.

Margie says they love being around children and are driven by the belief that all deserve an equal chance in life.

“Kids don’t have a choice about which family they’re born into,” she says.

“Sometimes the circumstances for parents change too, and they can’t do the great job that they set out to do.”

Margie and Gary keep in touch with many of the children they’ve cared for, who still call them Nan and Pop. They often receive phone calls about their school achievements – or from young people looking to chat about life events, such as relationship break-ups.

Margie encourages others who have considered foster care to take the next step.

“Having the kids here is our life, it’s our passion – we get a lot of enjoyment out of it. Kids just enjoy the sense of being part of a family,” she says.

Uniting Country SA chief executive officer Dr Harry Randhawa said the couple’s commitment to children in care and regional communities was “exemplary”.

“Margie and Gary are real life super heroes for providing a safe and loving environment for over 300 young people,” he said.

“On behalf of Uniting Country SA, I send my profound gratitude and wish them a wonderful retirement.”

Minister for Child Protection Katrine Hildyard said the extraordinary impact Margie and Gary have made over years of foster caring will ripple through generations.

“Margie and Gary exemplify generosity and what is meant by people having ‘big hearts’.  To have opened their home and life to so many children and young people over the past three decades and to have provided such love, care, safety and nurture is utterly inspiring,” she said.

“I wholeheartedly thank them for their kindness; it has changed the lives of so many young people and it has strengthened our community.

“I wish Margie and Gary the very best in their well deserved retirement; they can retire with the knowledge that they have made an immense difference to the happiness and wellbeing of hundreds of young people who needed the love and care they so generously provided.”

For more information on foster care, call 1300 2 FOSTER (1300 2 367 837) or visit www.fostercare.sa.gov.au